‘Compromise’ is a very easy and common word to suggest when your friend or close one needs help. But at the day-end, when you are facing problems and that can be resolved by a little compromise, you would not. You cannot get the ultimate balance of your life without it.
Relationships survive on compromise. Your family, neighbors, work colleagues and above all your better half, all challenge our space, time, freedoms and beliefs. Sometimes you have to face a challenge with your self-respect also. Anyone in a long-term relationship will testify as to how two individuals soon become a blend of each other’s routines, habits and personalities partly due to a fusion of actions and emotion, but also largely as a result of daily compromise.
In current social structure of our nation, a woman compromises the most in her life. Yeah to some extent, it is the fact. However, it does not mean that the word ‘compromise’ should use for them only. Suppose a man builds a special relation without any condition. Yes, I agree that a girl do the same also. However, after a long period you will notice that the man loses his bonding with others because of a straightforward version regarding this relationship when he tries to establish the same before the family as well as society. However, no one considers it as a necessity as it is so simple and it should be. In our nation, we believe that a guy can hold the hands of his parents better than a girl. So from the beginning of our culture or civilization, it has become a rule that a girl will leave her own universe after marriage. It is tough enough to change the entire environment suddenly. However, can you feel when a person takes all the responsibility of a new human being, what can be the demands of himself? He needs only the same bonding among all the family members, relatives, friends and others as he maintains the same. He demands a peaceful life with a little bit of emotions and supportive mind from her. He always tries for a new bonding with her, which will be the highest powerful in his lifetime. If all these go perfect, he will be the happiest person in the world.
But, if one of those goes through a different path, what can be established? First, if a relation breaks, it hurts a woman deeper than a guy. But we assume that the reason is that poor guy always. We do not think twice when a woman complains against a person for something. We love to be busier to take revenge on him on behalf of that woman before we think twice. But we don’t think that the incident may harm that poor guy’s life completely. One day he did not stayed back when she asked for help for her. But after a certain period it got reversed with another direction.
A boy cannot afford a nuisance of emotions. He cannot take revenge over that girl who is the better half of him. A boy cannot forget all the pains those he has gained from her and for her. Still he do continues to be a patient of emotions where he should move on… He fulfills all the necessities of the surroundings.
He compromises with himself…
hmmm so touchy...
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