“You may not get the same as return when you love someone.” – This is true. However, today I have perceived some versions of them; those insist you to believe these words… It was a strange experience. What are meanings of ‘FEELINGS’, ‘RESPECT’, ‘BONDINGS’ OR ‘FAMILY VALUES, to the GEN-NXT (Coming generation), it may be for himself/herself or for others??? How they are explaining these words today? I have no idea… I realized that WE, the 80’s, ARE SIMPLY OUTDATED TODAY…
I was in a public transport and there were a couple of college students behind my seat. They were communicating about their own. One of them, was using some sentences again and again. I am just quoting her …
১। "বাপি(বাবা) আছে টাকা দেওয়ার জন্য... টাকা দিতে বাপি বাধ্য।"
২। "এটা আমার life, life-এ আমি কি করব, কখন করব, কিভাবে করব, সেটা শুধু মাত্র আমিই ঠিক করব। সেখানে মা কেন কথা বলতে আসবে??? আমিতো মায়ের কোনো ব্যাপারে নাক গলাই না।"
৩। "কোনো ছেলে যদি সেরকম Handu(Handsome) হয়, তো তার সাথে অনেক দূরে ঘুরতে যেতে বা এক ঘরে থাকতে আমার problem হয় না... সে ছেলেটা যেমনই হোক না কেন... মাত্র ২-৩ দিনের ত ব্যাপার।"
There was a most awful sentence too. I had listened it from one of my good friends also. I was surprised hearing the same words this time. May be the language was different at that time. But it was a repetition… and that is…
"Guys get attracted on me. I think, few of them are badly serious, but… ঐ ছেলেগুলো আমার সামনে এলেই আমার ঝাঁট জলে যায়..."
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You are Really Right but there are no value of ‘FEELINGS’, ‘RESPECT’, ‘BONDINGS’ OR ‘FAMILY VALUES, but those young guys don't know that, one day they also will be past and when they will get same returne from their Child, then only they will Realized the so called ( ‘FEELINGS’, ‘RESPECT’, ‘BONDINGS’ OR ‘FAMILY VALUES) Because we are human being not animal of machine and we do not have any existence without these.
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