Life cannot satisfy your needs or expectations always as per
your view, rather you can say that you cannot get all the required things in
your life when you expect them.
Suppose you need something from another person, and you know
that the person can provide you the same with happiness. However, you are not
getting the thing. Sometimes you are getting the thing you were looking for. When
you are getting it, you have fulfilled your needs by another. Even sometimes,
you are getting the same thing with the exact configuration at the actual time
frame, but the person who are giving you the thing, he/she is not so happy at
the time of giving. Therefore, you cannot expect that each and everything you
need in your life will get with the expected environment.
Relations are mostly a burden to fulfill your own needs. When
you need to relocate somewhere else for your own career, you are unable to do
it because of your family. May be after few months the circumstances demand the
relocation again and your family agreed. May be this time you have an
opportunity which also meets the requirement, but you will think that the
previous opportunity was better than this. May be when your family support you
to relocate, then you do not have any opportunity.
Sometime you need someone in your life as a real friend. But
he/she has another one for her own. So you will not get that person as you
expected. On other hand, suppose he/she wanted you as his/her partner. But you
are not actually ready to accept it. Then? It happens with several human beings
that, when he/she expressed something like this in front of you, you had
ignored the thought. But day by day you realize that the person was your need
and you have ignored your happiness. Now when you are expecting that he/she is
waiting for you and you are expecting a positive result from that person, you
are being afraid.
Suppose you need a better place to build a universe of your
own. But you have to wait for another 5 years for it. You know that after 5
years the concept will not make any sense at that time. Still you have to wait.
One of my friends, who knows and believes that, he will not
be alive for a long time. He knows that the entire system of the body as well
as mind is going to crash in a single moment near future; He knows that he is
going to leave this lovely universe very soon, how much should he/she expect
from life and how much should he/she get from it?
I did not get any answer when I placed the same question to
some of my colleagues, friends and my family members. I think nobody can
realize the pain of that person. I am not so different so I could not feel the
same. Yeah, I understand that he wants to be with us like others. However, when
he came in front of me 2 months ago, I could not do anything for him.
We all believe that we have so many problems so many
difficulties in our life. Some of us pray to god that ‘Please do not send any
other person with this type of LUCK’. We do not believe that we, who are reading
this post, have so much luxury in our life. We do not trust that we do not have
any capability to gain some more in respect to them, those cannot dream the
little amount we are getting. I had faced a problem that is lesser than
negligible to these people, and got a valuable comment from another friend and
ex-colleague Adorin (Abhijit Banerjee) , which I believe since that day and will believe until my
last breath.
We all are accustomed to all these, because God has made us like this.....bearing with the pain and struggle to sustain
We all are accustomed to all these, because God has made us like this.....bearing with the pain and struggle to sustain
I shared the same words ‘LIVE LIFE KING SIZE...’
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